The 38-year-old Puerto Rican singer shared with Attitude magazine what he looks for in a guy.

“I love witty,” he told the mag. “I love mental strength. Just being secure. With all the stuff I come with, you have to be someone who is sure of himself. That turns me on. Somebody who is very sure of themselves without being arrogant – smart, witty, has a career. Somebody who is very open-minded about things. That’s what I love. Adventurous is the word.”

But being a father of twins—Matteo and Valentino—has changed a few things.

“I used to fall in love quickly,” Ricky admitted. “When you are young you are open to taking risks and not afraid of anything. Now my priorities are different. I have children and they are the most important thing in my life. OK, I’m in a relationship and I know how lucky I am.”

For the original report go to Read more: http://justjared.buzznet.com/2010/12/23/ricky-martin-attitude-magazine/#ixzz194Aqdow5

For the complete interview you have to buy the magazine, alas.